How Self-Doubt Gets Trained Into Sensitive Kids (and How We Untrain It)
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Did you grow up with a parent who slammed cabinets, or sulked over laundry,
and you - little empath you - asked,
“Are you okay?”
And they smiled through clenched teeth and said,
“No, honey, I’m fine.”
So now your body’s confused because
everything feels off,
but they said it’s fine,
so maybe you’re wrong?
Boom.
A seed is planted.
Self doubt.
You start to second-guess what you know.
What you feel in your bones.
Then you go to 4th grade (and you’re “totally FINE” mom drops you off) and you raise your hand
You share something valuable -
like actually thoughtful
and it’s met with “thanks for sharing.”
Then, the kid next to you repeats it
with louder bravado
and everyone’s like:
“Wow. Chad. That’s deep.”
Then you’re really confused.
You second-guess yourself.
I must be MISTAKEN.
A pattern is born.
Second Guessing.
You call it anxiety.
You call it impostor syndrome.
You call it “overthinking.”
But what it really is… is training.
You were trained to doubt yourself,
Your truth, THE truth.
Here’s what KNOW to be true:
Anything trained can be untrained.
Say it with me:
I know what is true. I share what is true for me.
I know what is valuable. I share what is valuable to me.
This isn’t just a live call.
It’s a movement.
To break the pattern.
To heal what our moms couldn’t.
To stop second-guessing ourselves in love, in parenting, in life.
We go live tomorrow at 10 am Pacific / 1 pm EST for A Live Roadmap: Somatic EFT for Second Guessing & Self Doubt.
It’s going to be so good.
If you’re reading this on Wednesday… or Sunday… or 3 months from now - don’t worry.
You didn’t miss it.
You can access the roadmap, the replay, the workbook, and over 100 other classes inside the portal.
I don’t think of it as a live call.
I think of tomorrow’s Zoom circle as a movement to break a pattern that never belonged to us.
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Basically it’s $35 for all access to the Second Guessing Roadmap + 100 other past calls. Maintain access for as long as you’re a member .
Goodbye second second-guessing.
Hello certainty.
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